很久没有看过一部可以感动自己的电影了。
前两天睡前随手打开一部放在电脑里的[PS .I Love You],
让我久违得感受到暖暖的爱情,和一些低调而细腻的励志情绪。
片头。
女主角Holly因为对现实生活的不满而与丈夫Gerry开始争吵,
要孩子或者不要;换工作或者不换;
关于住房、关于收入。。the same old stuffs。。。
Gerry问Holly,“你究竟想要什么,是大房子,是孩子,请告诉我?
我知道我想要的已经拥有的Because I still wake up every morning, and the first thing I want to do is see you face!
而你呢,请告诉我?女人永远不知道自己想要什么。。”
。。。。
他们像无数夫妇一样,毫无创意的激烈争吵,
但却在白热化时,2人瞬间意识到自己的错误,
开始互相道歉,拥抱,热吻。。一切也开始变得美好而感人。
就是这样一对深爱着对方的平凡的小夫妻,也没有躲过残酷现实的来袭。
Gerry因脑瘤而突然去世了。
Holly的世界也因此开始变得空白与无助。
她把自己关在家里,感受着房间里丈夫的气息,回忆着过去两个人的日子和爱情。
曾经的普通平凡如今看起来竟然是那么的珍贵。
Holly迷失在痛苦里,生活没有了方向。
她为以前没能更加好好爱Gerry,少些吵架而后悔,
为自己在拥有的时候很不懂得珍惜,
而突然的失去才了解自己曾经是多么愚蠢。
这时,她收到了Gerry的来信。
是去世前的Gerry为Holly写的信。。。
他为她安排了他去世后的生活,
告诉她需要买一个床头灯,体贴的为她准备生日party和礼物,
安排她和朋友去clubbing,去旅行。。。等等等。。
以此来帮助他最爱的Holly走出自己离开后的阴霾生活,振作起来。
而每封信的最后都是,PS.I Love You 。
Gerry一定也在天堂后悔生前没能把这句话说的足够多。。。
写到这里。。我们总是太习惯拥有,理所应当的拥有,
可是如果某一天我们毫无抵抗得失去了拥有的东西时,才知道拥有的珍贵。
所以。。同学们,当你们还能爱着身边的人时,请不要吝啬多给对方一些爱。
Holly是个不幸的女人。但是,她却也是最幸福的女人。
因为她曾经得到过最美好的爱情,有一个如此深爱她并且了解她的男人,
不管是在他的生前还是故后。
这是让多少天下女人羡慕的事情。。
可也正因为如此,才更加让失去爱人的她看起来如此不幸。
anyway,不管怎么样,就算我们失去一切,
地球还是依然转动,时间还是不能停止,
我们能做的,就是找到属于自己的生活,坚强地活下去。
PS:I LOVE YOU。没有让我流眼泪,
但是平静的淡淡的感伤,爱情,亲情,友情的共鸣却很深刻的感动了我。
不管爱情是多么的苍白无力,但它却仍然是我们人生的最大理想。
另外,Holly的母亲有段话说的很真实:
you know the worst thing for a parent?
econd after losing a Child,watching your child has the same life that you had,
and you can’t stop it.its terrible,helpless feeling,
make you angry all the time,and i have been angry,very long time…
PPS:第一次看Hilary Swank演小女人,还真是不赖。果然是影后的说。。^^V
PPPS:包大人。。跳楼割血送出GARRY写的信。。所以阿。。你们能不能PS:I LOVE 包大人 ^^V
第一封信:
From Gerry:
Save yourself bruises and buy yourself a bedside lamp.
And remember, a disco diva must look her best.
Go buy yourself a knock-out outfit.
You will need it for when my next letter comes.
And i know you hate your job, but I’ll help.
Look for a sign. You know what to do.
PS: I love you.
第二封信:
From Gerry:
Holly! Go on Disco Diva, Karaoke this month.
Perform and you never know,
you might be rewarded…
PS I love you.
第三封信:
From Gerry:
My leather jacket is for you.
I always loved the way that looked on you.
But the rest of my stuff,
you don’t need it.
Make some space in that bloody apartment for yourself.
Go on. It’s time, Baby.
PS: I love you.
第四封信
Holly, and I know you love me.
You don’t need my belongings to remember me by,
you don’t need to keep them as proof that I existed or still exist in your mind.
You don’t need to wear my sweater to feel me around you;
I’m already there…always wrapping my arms around you.
Isn’t sweet?
oh by the way,
the landscape of Ireland is so beautiful in the movie, just like a Fairland.
PS: I love you,
第五封信
To Sharon from Gerry:
Hey, big Mama!
Make sure my baby has a good time.
Make sure you and John do everything you wanna do…
And make sure my baby does things.
I want you to take her fishing.
And be sure to give yourself a big,
sweaty pony-boy kiss from me.
第六封信:
To Denise from Gerry:
Denise, take Holly to Whelan’s my favourite pub.
There’s beautiful music to be heard, beautiful people to be around.
And Denise, you’re going to heaven for being my baby’s friend.
I’m making all the arrangements up here for you.
Got a few hot men ined up.
I hear Ben Franklin’s hung like a racehorse. Love you.
第七封信:
To my Galway girl:
You are a angel to see my folks.
I told you my mom didn’t hate your guts.
Well, you know any more.
You are standing in my fort where i did all my big thinking.
This is where i stood thinking about you after the very first time we met.
You didn’t look real to me at first.
I never saw so many colors on one girl before…
but you looked like you belonged out there all right.
You and all your colors.
Do you remember the first thing you ever said to me?
"I’m lost" oh, you didn’t look lost, not to me…
PS I love you.
最后一封信:
To Holly:
Dear Holly, I don’t have much time.
I don’t mean literally,
I mean, you are out buying an icecream and you’ll be home soon…
but i have the feeling that this is the last letter.
Because there is only one thing left to tell you.
It isn’t to go down memory lane or make you buy a lamp.
You can take care of yourself without any help from me.
It’s to tell how much you moved me.
How you changed me. You made me a man by loving me. Holly…
We shared some beautiful times together and you made my life…
you made my life. I have no regrets.
But I am just a chapter in your life, there will be many more.
Remember our wonderful memories,
but please don’t be afraid to make some more.
P.S, I will always love you.
■片名:《P.S. I Love You》
■译名:《附注:我爱你》、《P.S.我爱你》、《留给最爱的情书》
■导演:理查德·拉·格拉文斯(Richard LaGravenese)
■原著:西莉亚·埃亨(Cecelia Ahern)
■编剧:理查德·拉·格拉文斯(Richard LaGravenese)、Steven Rogers
■主演:希拉里·斯万克(Hilary Swank)、杰拉德·巴特勒(Gerard Butler)、莉莎·库卓(Lisa Kudrow)
■类型:剧情、喜剧
■片长:126分钟
■出品国家:美国
■制作公司:Alcon Entertainment
■发行公司:华纳兄弟影片公司
■首映日期:2007年12月21日(美国)